You start by registering and filling out all the questions (Register button above).
Step 2 (requests)
You then get a list of compatible matches (other users like yourself who also have filled the form). You can then send friend requests to these users.
Step 3 (get connected!)
Patience + luck! Once your requests are accepted by the user, a chat will be accessible or contact details will be shared with both of you. Compatible users can also send requests to you.
Example of a 'compatible match' is shown:
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More info:
Save your secret token (provided after registering)! This will also be emailed to you IF you provide an email.
Most people get around 20-80 matches. If you get less, make sure you have filled out the form correctly!
You can send upto 25 requests to people per 24h period. A simple rate limit.
Email notifications about requests/friends get sent out every 30 minutes, though not everyone added an email.
Matches are done instantly! But you still have to wait for the user to accept your friend requests.
There is additional 'level 2' open ended questions if you want to share more about yourself.
You should practise reasonable caution when communicating with anyone new online.